Tricks of the Narcissistic Trade

  1. magic tricksGathering information about the victim – staring (commonly known as the “sociopathic stare”) and asking lots of questions (the answers will later be used against you to manipulate and control you)
  2. Playing on the victim’s fears and insecurities (again they will uncover your fears by studying you and asking pertinent questions)
  3. Provocation – narcissists are professional button pushers
  4. Divide and Conquer – telling untruths to turn others against each other so they don’t team up to protect themselves against the abuse. This allows them greater control over others.
  5. Projection – the narcissist projects the characteristics they dislike in themsleves (but are in denial about) onto their victim
  6. Triangulation – making the victim jealous of another so that the victim works hard to gain the narcissist’s approval
  7. Confusion – to distract from what the narcissist is really trying to do. Confusion also ensures that the attention is on the narcissist and this provides them with narcissistic supply
  8. Emotional Dysregulation
  9. Gaslighting

These will all be discussed in greater detail in future posts.  Feel free to add any examples that you have come across in the comments below.

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